Change is inevitable. It’s something that each of us will eventually experience in life.
As we grow from an infant to an adult, we would have gone through physical and emotional changes. As we experience a transition from one phase in life into another we would experience another changes.
Life is like seasons. It changes from time to time and each has its own hardship and also its own beauty. No matter how hard we try to resist the change, either we like it or not, in the end it will still happen. Life change, people change, things change and we need to have flexibility to be able to adapt with the change.
In every point in our lives we will meet different people. Some might last for a season, some might last longer and those who last through every season in our lives are the ones we call as best friends. People who has grown with us and has walked with us down the road through every season. So far, i am certain that everyone that we encounter in life has a purpose either for our own lives or for their lives. Our relationship with people will help us to grow, sometimes it’s a preparation to build us and teach us about something before we go into another season or another level.
In the friendship level, challenges will come when changes happen and we are promoted or going to the next level. WHY? Because not everyone will grow with us and not everyone will still able to understand us once they stop growing with us. We can’t continue hold on to the people who won’t grow with us and keeping us from growing, we should learn to let go and move on. It’s either we stay or we go, we have to choose and we can’t please everyone. Just believe that in the next level of our lives we would meet another people and build another friendship.
As I live my life I have figured that in every season, I would surely meet different people and some relationships are indeed changed. Some have grown into strangers and some new friendship bonds are built. That’s how life is, change is always around the corner and we need to be ready and prepared to face it. We can’t expect that everything or everyone would always stay the same because things change and people grow.
It’s not that we don’t value the friendship or the relationship we have with people, but we need to be wise enough to see which relationship would get us further and which relations would get us stuck in the same stagnant circle. We should always maintain the good faith in friendship but we also need to be courageous to take a step out of the comfort zone if that’s necessary. Believe that, the true friendship that will last is the true friendship tested with time and the kind of friendship we have with people who grow with us and who would support us to grow, they don’t drag us down but always challenge us to grow better.
Every decision that we make will also lead us into a new season. Either we realise it or not, every decision has a consequences and that consequences brought us to where we are today. If we look back to where we were, we will see that we have gone through many seasons, we have been through a lot of things that made us the way we are today and every hardship that we have endure have made us stronger and wiser than before. There is always a lesson to learn in every season in our lives.
Be grateful in the season where we are now and if you’re going through a hard time, remember that it is just a season not a destination. That too shall pass and that too shall take us to another level in life. Be expectant of the unexpected, keep the faith and keep moving on.
As we grow from an infant to an adult, we would have gone through physical and emotional changes. As we experience a transition from one phase in life into another we would experience another changes.
Life is like seasons. It changes from time to time and each has its own hardship and also its own beauty. No matter how hard we try to resist the change, either we like it or not, in the end it will still happen. Life change, people change, things change and we need to have flexibility to be able to adapt with the change.
In every point in our lives we will meet different people. Some might last for a season, some might last longer and those who last through every season in our lives are the ones we call as best friends. People who has grown with us and has walked with us down the road through every season. So far, i am certain that everyone that we encounter in life has a purpose either for our own lives or for their lives. Our relationship with people will help us to grow, sometimes it’s a preparation to build us and teach us about something before we go into another season or another level.
In the friendship level, challenges will come when changes happen and we are promoted or going to the next level. WHY? Because not everyone will grow with us and not everyone will still able to understand us once they stop growing with us. We can’t continue hold on to the people who won’t grow with us and keeping us from growing, we should learn to let go and move on. It’s either we stay or we go, we have to choose and we can’t please everyone. Just believe that in the next level of our lives we would meet another people and build another friendship.
As I live my life I have figured that in every season, I would surely meet different people and some relationships are indeed changed. Some have grown into strangers and some new friendship bonds are built. That’s how life is, change is always around the corner and we need to be ready and prepared to face it. We can’t expect that everything or everyone would always stay the same because things change and people grow.
It’s not that we don’t value the friendship or the relationship we have with people, but we need to be wise enough to see which relationship would get us further and which relations would get us stuck in the same stagnant circle. We should always maintain the good faith in friendship but we also need to be courageous to take a step out of the comfort zone if that’s necessary. Believe that, the true friendship that will last is the true friendship tested with time and the kind of friendship we have with people who grow with us and who would support us to grow, they don’t drag us down but always challenge us to grow better.
Every decision that we make will also lead us into a new season. Either we realise it or not, every decision has a consequences and that consequences brought us to where we are today. If we look back to where we were, we will see that we have gone through many seasons, we have been through a lot of things that made us the way we are today and every hardship that we have endure have made us stronger and wiser than before. There is always a lesson to learn in every season in our lives.
Be grateful in the season where we are now and if you’re going through a hard time, remember that it is just a season not a destination. That too shall pass and that too shall take us to another level in life. Be expectant of the unexpected, keep the faith and keep moving on.
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